Do your research even if you have owned a pet. We can have selective memory as to time, costs and energy going into raising and loving a dog. We often forget what puppyhood was like after having a dog for 15 years. It’s good to make sure you can really go the distance with a new family member.

2. Are you an athlete or a couch potato?

Like with any relationship, having things in common matters. For example, if you are a mellow person, then get a mellow dog. Yes, of course training can influence a dog’s temperament–but this is also an age issue. Great young adult dogs of all breeds can be found in shelters that may fit your bill. If you are an active family or household and want to hike and bike–knock yourself out with a puppy 0r an athletic breed of dog or mutt.

3. Do you want to include your dog in your daily workouts?

Maybe I ask this question because many busy people (who want a dog) often go for the athletic high energy breeds. Unfortunately, these high energy dogs often end up at home waiting for their owners to come home from the gym and don’t get the exercise needed. The advice I have for a working person, who also goes to the gym more than walking or hiking outdoors should forget the uber working, herding or terrier-like  breeds. Stick to the fun middle-of-the-road temperaments and breeds.

4. Do you think small breeds are easier to handle?

Well, not always!  Some small breed dogs are not easier to train or exercise than larger breeds. For example, a Jack Russell or a Boston Terrier can be quite a handful in terms of exercise needs. Whereas a Great Pyrenees or even a Bull Mastiff are large but can sometimes be mellow and lumbering in disposition. In other words, do your research and don’t think that all little breeds are easy. Do your research on your own lifestyle and daily routine to see what size, temperament and age of dog best matches your daily routine and family.

5. Are you or any family members allergic to dogs?

My advice for potentially allergic family members is to go to an animal shelter and visit many friends with dogs to see the person in question’s reaction. Allergies can vary and it isn’t just the dog’s hair–it’s the dander. Therefore, breeds like Poodles, Maltese, and Portuguese Water dogs along with many other breeds are not always the answer. This is an individual issue and everyone reacts differently. Be sure.

6. Is everyone in your family in agreement with owning a dog?

Make sure everyone is in agreement! Couples are often not on the same page on whether to get a dog and this can cause a problem! The one who can eventually end up losing is the dog, A great way around this is to make a plan. Make a list of expenses, vet bills, food, time and training classes. Finding a breed that matches your lifestyle is the key. Have fun looking and do not make an impulsive choice. I have seen the most obstinate people who are against getting a dog be won over with wags. You just have to go about it the right way.

7. Are you getting a dog just because your child wants one?

Are you getting a dog only because your child has been hounding you for years? Many parents experience this pressure. My advice is not to get a dog only because your child wants one. The responsibility will and should fall exclusively on you–the parent. This can be a great experience, but remember, you will be the one guiding both your dog and child throughout your daily routine.